4 money myths you shouldn’t believe –
Introduction ๐
It’s easy to get confused when taking the leap into learning about money. ๐ฌ
There are so many different bits of advice people tell you – which should you believe? ๐ค
Here are our top 4 money myths, that you shouldn’t listen to! ๐ฆ๐
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Myth 1 – Money doesn’t buy you happiness ๐คทโโ๏ธ๐ธ
You must’ve heard this one! – The idea that money has nothing to do with how happy you can be. ๐คทโโ๏ธ
It’s a myth! ๐ฆ
Money can buy you happiness (sort of). ๐ธ
Money pays for your basic needs ๐๏ธ
It can give you:
- Food and water ๐๐ฆ
- Shelter and warmth ๐ก๐ฅ
- The ability to rest and take a break ๐ด๐
- Safety and security ๐
- Healthcare ๐ฉโโ๏ธ๐ฉน
These are some of your most basic needs!
Living without your basic needs covered can make life stressful, and make it quite difficult to be happy. ๐
Money pays for experiences that can make you happy ๐๏ธ
Not only can money cover your basic needs, but it can also give you life experiences that bring you happiness. โจ
Research has shown that life experiences can bring us lasting happiness. โ๏ธ
Things like:
- Watching sports events ๐คฝโโ๏ธ
- Restaurants ๐
- Comedy shows ๐ฅธ
- Family/friend nights ๐ช
- Hiking ๐๏ธ
- Reading a book ๐
- Hosting a BBQ ๐ณ
- Music shows ๐ถ
- Bowling ๐ณ
- Growing a plant ๐ฑ
- Going on holiday ๐๏ธ
- Drawing a picture ๐จ
give us happy memories that can last a lifetime.๐
And a lot of them cost money! ๐ณ
Money gives you choices โ
If you have financial security, you get a lot more options in life. ๐ค๐ญ
You can:
- Take holidays ๐๏ธ
- Leave a bad relationship ๐
- Start your own business ๐ผ
- Live independently ๐ก
- Donate money to charities ๐
- Choose where you work ๐๐บ
- Buy treats for yourself and others ๐
- Choose where you live ๐บ๏ธ
- Travel โ๏ธ
These choices can make you happier in life. โ๏ธ
Money can buy you happiness – but it doesn’t guarantee it. ๐ธ๐
Money can buy you happiness by improving your life. ๐
But, it doesn’t guarantee that you’ll be happy and fulfilled all of the time. โ๏ธ
It’s commonly known that some rich people or celebrities struggle to be happy, despite having lots of money. ๐คทโโ๏ธ๐ฐ
If you don‘t feel like you have meaning or a purpose in life it can be a struggle to find happiness, not matter how much money you have. ๐๐ธโค๏ธ
But despite this, don’t let the saying “Money can’t buy you happiness” make you feel guilty or greedy for wanting money! ๐ท
It’s not greedy to want money if you’re not already rich – money can make a huge difference to your life and happiness! ๐ชโจ
Myth 2 – “You shouldn’t talk about money” ๐๐คซ
Money can be a taboo topic โ a lot of people donโt want to talk about it. ๐ค
But, it is something that we all need to talk about. ๐
Talking about money can help you to:
- get on top of your finances ๐ช๏ธ
- increase your income ๐
- save money ๐ฐ
- improve your relationships ๐
- reduce stress ๐
Why you need to start thinking (and talking) about money๐ธ
If we don’t talk about money, how else can we learn about it? ๐ง๐ค
The idea that “You shouldn’t talk about money” is a myth! ๐ฆ
Myth 3 – You should “just know” how to look after money ๐ค๐ญ
One of the biggest myths about money is that people can “just know” how to look after it. ๐ฆ
If nobody taught you how to look after money, why would you expect yourself to be good at looking after money? ๐คทโโ๏ธ
You wouldn’t have a go at someone for being a bad driver if they’ve never had driving lessons, would you? ๐๐จ
Money management is a skill to practice, learn, and study. ๐ ๏ธ๐ฉโ๐ซ
Don’t be hard on yourself if you don’t know a lot about money! ๐คทโโ๏ธ
It’s all about learning step by step – and The Grown-Up School is here to help you do that. ๐ฃโจ๐
Myth 4 – If you work hard, you’ll get rich ๐ช๐ธ
If you’re the kind of person who works hard, that’s amazing!๐ผ
Being a hard worker increases your chances of making lots of money. ๐
But unfortunately, it doesn’t guarantee that you’ll become rich. โน๏ธ
You might work really hard to keep your house super clean. ๐งฝ๐งผ
Does that mean you’ll become super rich? ๐ธ
Sadly not. ๐
A lot of jobs don’t pay enough money to live comfortably. ๐
You could work really hard in a job that doesn’t pay very well. ๐ช๐
Does that guarantee that you’ll become super rich? ๐ธ
Still no. โน๏ธ
Making a lot of money depends on a lot of different factors – not just how hard you work. ๐๐ผ
And a lot of these factors could be completely out of your control! ๐คทโโ๏ธ
This includes things like:
- Where you were born ๐บ๏ธ
- How much support is available to you from the government ๐๏ธ
- If you were born into a wealthy family ๐ธ
- What kind of opportunities you come across ๐
- How much financial support you have from family/friends ๐ช
- What you’re good at ๐
- How much people are willing to pay you ๐ฐ
- Your life experiences (good and bad)๐๏ธ
- Who you’re lucky enough to meet/know๐ต๏ธโโ๏ธ
- If people will treat you fairly or not ๐ค๐ฉโโ๏ธ
So, if you’re not rich, don’t be hard on yourself! ๐
Don’t tell yourself it’s because you’re not working hard enough.
You wouldn’t tell a hardworking, poor family that they’re not working hard enough, would you? ๐ค
Give yourself that same care. ๐
It’s all about being kind to yourself and getting on top of your money step by step ๐ฃโจ๐
Conclusion ๐
So that’s it!
You should believe that:
- Money can buy you happiness (but doesn’t guarantee happiness). ๐
- You should definitely talk about money! ๐ค
- Learning about money comes from studying – you shouldn’t be expected to “just know” how to make money and look after money. ๐ค
- Working hard is great, but it doesn’t guarantee that you’ll become rich ๐ธ
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